Description
There is a version of the healing journey that is only about getting back to baseline — restoring the life and self that existed before the disrupting event. This is an understandable goal in the immediate aftermath of crisis. But the self that existed before the crisis was itself a product of habit, circumstance, and inherited expectation. The deeper possibility that major change opens — and that this book is written to help you realise — is something more: the construction of a self that is more genuinely, deliberately, and fully yours.
Post-traumatic growth research has consistently demonstrated that a significant proportion of people who navigate major adversity report positive psychological changes as a result: greater clarity about what matters, deeper relationships, increased appreciation for life, a stronger sense of personal strength. These changes are not inevitable — they don’t happen automatically. They are the result of engaging the change deliberately and with the right tools. The Rebuilt Self is a guide to that engagement.
The book traces self-reconstruction through three phases: deconstruction (honestly releasing the elements of the old self that no longer fit — the roles, beliefs, and patterns that served their purpose and are now limiting); integration (absorbing the insights of the journey into a revised and richer self-understanding); and construction (deliberately building the next chapter, informed by everything the change has taught you). Each phase includes practices, reflections, and case studies.
This is not a book for the early stages of crisis — it is for people who have done the stabilisation and regulation work, engaged with identity and meaning questions, and are ready to bring everything together into a life that genuinely reflects who they have become.
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